ASSUME

Many times in my past and my present people tend to assume, and not just anything, but things that can cause uneasiness or mistrust or even hate. When in reality all they do is make an ASS out of U and ME!

I say this because both men and women alike do this, and you can always manage to factor it down to one reason for the men and one for the women,

MEN: Assume you are falling into a crush, lust or love with them.
WOMEN: Assume you are jealous.

I can’t count myself out of this, I know for a fact that I myself have made assumptions in the past and I have been wrong.

I work with police and I have come to realize that to make a good Police Officer or any profession that handles life threatening situations (be it your life or someone else) or a profession that passes judgment on others, you have to be able to look at the whole picture. You have to be able to investigate, make sense of your findings, and ask questions before you ASS-U-ME anything. Simply because you don't want to walk into a room and shoot the hostage instead of the suspect.

In reality it all boils down to one thing...

(ARROGANT ASSUMPTIONS)

That's right any assumptions made by any human being are out of arrogance. I at one point was very arrogant to assume that this girl was jealous of me, who knows maybe she just did not like me, maybe I reminded here of a violent relative, who knows but I assumed it was out of jealousy. And men alike are very arrogant to assume that just because we are nice and friendly to them that we are falling into some sort of romantic spell. And many women have accused me of being jealous for something I may or may not have done. On thing is for sure the day that I become jealous of someone I will tell you, as a matter of fact I think I did post about it once in the past. But I have come to realize that God has given me anything I ever asked for in life, and he continues to stand by my side. As long as I have a roof over my head, a loving family, good friends and LIFE, I have NO reason to be jealous of anyone. Most people assume that I am but only because I can't be a hurtful person unless you make me angry, then and only then will you see exactly how hurtful I can be, and all I have to do is use words. BUT REMEMBER IF YOU ASSUME, YOU COULD BE WRONG!

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